for my friend if she remembers.. we sort of 'bickered' when u learned that i shared ur blog with my colleague. i couldn't understand why u got so upset as i thought 'c'mon blogs are exposed & open, if u dont wana ppl to know abt ur affairs, don't blog. write a diary n hid it under ur pillow, duh!!!' i got disturbed by ur 'upset-ness' (there's no such word) and bitched abt it. anyway i was being very insensitive at that time because recently i understand hw u felt then. i realise i wasnt that comfortable with friends passing around my blog to others whom i did nt openly share i hv a blog. it is not a crime nor a violation that u guys share it with others but it's just me - im just not very chilled abt it. if i wan ppl to know abt the existence of my blog, i can do the job pretty well myself. alright, i've said my piece, go ahead n judge me, whoever!